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When you grow up as a child under normal conditions, you develop constructive thought patterns that match your feelings and behaviour. But when you face complicated situations at a young age, you can develop thought patterns that have undesirable consequences as an adult.

Schema therapy helps you change your behaviour

Schema therapy enables you to slowly change your old and complex behavioural patterns into more desirable behaviour. This type of therapy works well for people who have trouble with the emotional processing of information. They often struggle with the behaviour that results from their thoughts, and the interaction between their behaviour, and the reaction to it from people around them. Schema therapy teaches you to recognise and break free from these old behavioural patterns. A lot of focus goes to recognising your old behaviour and responses, and to adopting new ways of thinking. By comparing the new behaviour with the old, a process of awareness begins and new schemas of more desirable behaviour emerge.

What is a schema?

The way you process information can be explained schematically. When you register information, you automatically interpret it; give meaning to it. This triggers certain thoughts and feelings, based on your former experiences and associations. If something goes wrong during this process, events might get a negative interpretation. This affects the judgement of your own or other people’s behaviour, making your reaction unnecessarily negative. This again leads to more negatively charged new information. From this interaction of cause and effect a negative pattern soon emerges. If this has been going on for years on end, these schemas may have become locked deep inside your character and identity. Through schema therapy, you can learn how to separate yourself from these negative schemas.

This may sound a bit abstract and difficult to understand, so let’s give an example.

Example of a schema

Jack was raised very strictly as a child. He was never allowed to make any mistake. As a result, he adopted a schema that helped him understand why he always received negative reactions. He started to believe that “nothing I do is ever good enough and this is why mummy is always angry with me. I am worthless…” As he grew up, he took this schema of “I’m never doing anything right” and “I am worthless” into adulthood.

One day, while having dinner with his girlfriend, he accidentally knocks over a bottle of wine. She responds: “Why can’t you be more careful?!” The old schema is activated, making him (again) feel worthless. He has just affirmed the idea that he never does anything right. As a result, he is feeling extremely guilty and angry with himself. This emotion is then difficult to place for him. And thus he reacts very strongly to his girlfriend, storming from the table, slamming the door and locking himself in the bedroom.

Schemas and roles

There are many kinds of such schemas and unhelpful thought patterns. They can be related to: emotional neglect, overdependence, inferiority, shame, self-sacrifice, loyalty, heightened sense of responsibility, or adapting to others too much. Examples of related roles are:

  • the abandoned child
  • the furious child
  • punishing parent
  • judgemental parent

A healthy adult

Schema therapy goes into extensive discussion on questions like: “Where is this intense feeling coming from?” and “What would be a healthy thought to replace it with?”. A healthy thought to go with the situation in the example would be:

Oh dear! I broke the bottle. I understand why it happened, It’s been a long day and I get less sharp when I’m tired.”

With the role of “the healthy adult”, someone is using schema therapy to give a different meaning to new experiences. By putting constructive thoughts beside the undesirable thoughts, someone interprets the situation differently. That makes it easier to deal with challenging situations.

Short videos about schematherapy

Here you can watch two short videos about schema therapy:

What is it and how can it help you? –
Schematherapy, what to expect? –

Prof. dr. Jim van OsChair Division Neuroscience, Utrecht University Medical Centre. Jim is also Visiting Professor of Psychiatric Epidemiology at the Institute of Psychiatry in London. Jim works at the interface of ‘hard’ brain science, health services research, art and subjective experiences of people with ‘lived experience’ in mental healthcare. 

Jim has been appearing on the Thomson-Reuter Web of Science list of ‘most influential scientific minds of our time’ since 2014. In 2014 he published his book ‘Beyond DSM-5‘, and in 2016 the book ‘Good Mental Health Care’. 

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